Why a California Neighborhood’s Kindness Pledge Is Exactly What Our World Needs

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Why a California Neighborhood’s Kindness Pledge Is Exactly What Our World Needs

Last week, during World Kindness week, I got a call from a USA Today reporter asking for my thoughts on a new California neighborhood, Silverwood, where every new resident is invited to sign a Kindness Pledge.
 
Not required.
Not enforced.
Simply invited.
 

Kindness as an Intention, Not a Rule

What struck me most about this pledge wasn’t the list of behaviors (be courteous, lend a hand, look out for your neighbors). It was the mindset behind it: building a community where kindness is the expectation, not the exception.
 
Kindness doesn’t thrive because someone mandates it. It thrives because people choose it… together. This community is choosing it from day one. They’re planting a seed of intention: Here, we take care of each other. Imagine if every workplace, school, condo building, or HOA started with that same empowering message.
 

A Neighborhood That Understands the Power of Social Health

The article highlights something researchers have known for years: strong social connection is one of the biggest predictors of well-being. We talk a lot about physical health and mental health, but “social health” may be the most overlooked of all.
 
When people say yes to kindness, they’re also saying yes to:
  • better emotional resilience
  • lower stress
  • healthier conflict resolution
  • a stronger sense of belonging
This community is designing for well-being at every level. Not through fancy wellness centers or amenities but through human connection.
And that is revolutionary.
 

Let’s Not Wait for a Developer to Create This

You don’t need a new housing development or a master-planned community to start your own culture of kindness.

You can begin right where you are:
  • Knock on a neighbor’s door and introduce yourself.
  • Leave a thank-you note for your delivery driver.
  • Organize a block potluck or community cleanup.
Small acts create big energy.
And big energy shapes culture.
 
This California neighborhood is a beautiful example of intentional kindness, but it can be a model for us all.

 

A Final Thought

Kindness is contagious when it’s named, nurtured, and celebrated. This pledge gives neighbors a shared language, a shared starting point, and a shared aspiration.

I believe the world is hungry for exactly this kind of intentionality.
The question isn’t: Why would a community do this?
The question is: Why aren’t more communities doing it already?
 
May this story inspire you to bring more generosity, warmth, and connection into your own corner of the world. We don’t have to wait for permission we can begin today.
 
With kindness,
Linda